For the record, I was one of those people really looking forward to the lazy days of summer at home with my children. I was even a little irked to read several posts criticizing us moms who actually looked forward to staying at home with our kids this summer. After all, why shouldn’t I be looking forward to sleeping in, easy care free lunches, peaceful afternoons sitting on the deck watching my children swim in the pool, reading blogs, gardening, planning day trips to the beach etc.
Then reality sets in. As our special needs daughter gets older, so do the challenges. It’s easier to take her behaviour in smaller doses during the week and as ashamed as I am to admit it, medication has helped her be more manageable on the weekends when she’s not in school.
The only problem is we’re not happy using medication. She is who she is and we need to learn how to parent this child without it. While she was in school we felt more okay with medication if it assisted her in being more focused to learn and the calming down of some of her quirks helped her a little bit socially. Now that school is out, we’re nixing the medication and turning to a Naturopath to help assist us in finding some kind of balance.
Day 1 had me trying to get her to clean her room for a showing the next morning. She object so strongly that we ended up having to help her clean which then resulted in her actually running away.